Recording summary · May 2020
I need to change my ways...
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Overview
Daniel canceled a planned trip to the Netherlands because Mila decided against meeting as a romantic couple, attributing this largely to online drama, negative comments directed at her, and harassment of her friends.
Daniel committed to altering his online behavior by ceasing to film or vlog romantic interests unless they already maintain an online public profile, reflecting on how pursuing views contrasted with previously hiding his ex-wife Chihiro's face.
Daniel initiated changes to his social media habits by stopping Discord use and moderating remarks to avoid taken-out-of-context screenshots, while focusing on physical fitness with daily dumbbell weightlifting ahead of an eventual return to Japan.
Themes
Cancellation of the Netherlands trip following Mila's decision not to meet romantically amid online harassment.
Policy change regarding filming, vlogging, and publishing content with future romantic interests.
Moderation and reduction of social media activity, including Discord usage and online remarks.
Personal fitness and preparations prior to tourists re-entering Japan.
Developments
Daniel canceled his planned trip to the Netherlands.
Daniel removed all videos featuring Mila from his channel.
Daniel ceased using Discord.
Daniel acquired a dumbbell to begin daily weightlifting.
Uncertainties & gaps
Daniel was unsure whether Mila would have still agreed to meet him if he had not filmed her from the beginning.
Daniel remains undecided on whether to permanently delete his Discord server or simply stop using it while leaving it open for members.
The exact timing of when Japan will reopen borders to tourists is unknown, with possibilities extending to the end of the year or the following year.