Something REAL messed Up Just Happened

You won't believe what just happened. Oh my God. You won't believe what just happened. I just went out to meet the Scottish girl that I came all the way here to Edinburgh to meet. She tricked me! She brought some guy with her. I can't believe it. She brought some guy who's apparently a viewer of mine who really wanted to meet me, and apparently he came all the way here from down south. And we were supposed to meet yesterday to go for drinks, but I ended up not going because I didn't feel like meeting a guy. So I ghosted her and I didn't check Instagram until today. And then we started chatting again, and then she said that we could meet up today. So I thought, well, okay, I guess so. But then she kept saying we, we could do this, we could go there, we can come. So I said I'm not interested in meeting multiple people. And then she said, it will just be us, don't worry. So I assumed just us meant me and her. What else would that mean? I made it pretty clear that I don't want to meet other people and I just want to meet her. So she come— she just came about 20 minutes ago. And I went out to the entrance of the hotel to go and see her, and then the bloody guy was there. Some, some tall white guy. Oh my God, I can't believe this. So I thought— I was kind of shocked, so I didn't know what to do. So I just kind of followed them for about 2 minutes, and then I was getting more and more annoyed, so I just went, actually, I think I'm just gonna leave. And then I walked away, and then she was like chasing me as I was trying to get back to the hotel, and she was like pulling on my arm to get me to stop. I can't believe someone would do that. Who the hell does that? Oh my God, why can't I meet any normal people? How many? How clear do I have to make it that I'm not interested in meeting guys? So I end up. I just blocked her just now because I don't want to talk to her anymore. I knew something was weird about it. Ever since I got here, I felt like there was something strange about her. First of all, she comes all the way to Edinburgh and then doesn't meet me but says she's on some date. And then she keeps going on about this guy called Alan. I don't want to meet some guy called Alan.

I—

she just basically tricked me into coming out to meet this guy, didn't she? Could you recap? Okay, I'll start from the very beginning since I haven't been very open about why I came to Scotland in the first place. So I've been chatting to this, this woman, this girl from Scotland for a few months now, and then we talked about meeting up, and we were— I thought we were supposed to meet last weekend. But she comes on the weekend, but she was on some date and then she didn't come and see me, so I was pretty annoyed about that. Then she said she'll come on Thursday, but then she said something else happened and she couldn't come on Thursday. Then she said Friday, and then she said she couldn't meet on Friday either. So at that point I was really annoyed, so I just thought screw this and I just deleted Instagram so I didn't have to deal with it. And then I decided to have a look at Instagram today just to check if she said anything, and she was trying to get me to come out and meet. So I explained to her that I wasn't really feeling up for it, and I don't know if I didn't make it clear enough that I'm not interested in meeting guys or other people. If we're going to meet, it's supposed to be just Her and I. Do you know if that was her boyfriend? I don't know. She didn't say she has a boyfriend. Why? I don't get it. Why? Why is she so desperate to get me to meet this guy to the point that she has to trick me into coming out? Because if she told me that this guy was coming, there's no way I would have gone out to meet her. I would have said, no, I'm not interested. Is the girl legit? Yeah, she's real. She was out there, and I've been chatting to her for a few months now, so I know she's not a fake. Can't believe it. I come all this way just to get tricked into meeting a bloody guy. Now I'm scared that's waiting out my hotel outside my hotel. Gave me a brownie as well, as if I'm gonna eat a brownie. Probably drugged it. I don't know if it's, if it's my misunderstanding, because I thought I made it pretty clear that I'm not interested in meeting guys. You watch any of my streams, you know, I'm always saying that I'm not interested in meeting guys or viewers who are guys. How would you not know that?

I don't know.

If you have been watching me for any amount of time, that's like my whole thing—that that I'm not interested in like male friendships or meeting guys or hanging out with guys. You guys know that, don't you? And then to trick me into meeting a guy—that's just the worst. If maybe I might meet a guy sometimes if I feel like if I feel like there's the right vibes there and I'm not feeling creeped out because I have met guys in the past. And I had a good time, but it's got to be on my terms, and I've got to decide it if I want to do it or not, not to have it forced on me. I just got these really weird vibes when I met— when I met them, just seemed really suspicious. Why would a girl pressure you into meeting a guy during your day? I don't know. It's like she's got this obsession with getting me to meet this guy. It's always like, oh, Alan's gonna be there tomorrow. He's gonna be here today. He came all this way to see you. Why does she care so much about getting me to meet him?

When you met them, what happened?

I just went out. As soon as I went to the towards the entrance, this guy came towards me, shook my hand, and I was like, "Oh my God! Are you kidding me? You seriously just tricked me into coming out just for that?" Oh my God! What is wrong with people? I can't believe I came all this way just just to see her, and then she does that. I don't know what her intentions were. I just I really don't get it. What does she want from me? Because I think I made it pretty clear that I only meet girls if there's you know because I think there might be a chance of you know what happening, and if I feel like. They're only interested in friendship, or if I feel like I'm being friend-zoned, then I just get the hell out of that situation. I block them. I say, that's it, I'm done. I move on. If I get friend-zoned, I'm done. I'm not interested in friends. I don't know how many times I have to explain this. Is your door locked? Yeah, it's locked. Oh my God, I was shaking because I was so annoyed. Well, at least I got myself out of the situation. I feel like if this happened a couple years ago, I would have been too scared to get out of that situation, and I would have just tagged along trying to find an exit. I felt a bit proud of myself that I just went, actually, I'm just gonna leave. That took— I feel like that took a bit of courage, because usually, you know, when I met Tomoko, I really wanted to get out of the situation, but I just didn't have the guts to say it. I don't want to sound like I'm being rude to the guy because— but Jesus, I don't want to meet guys, for God's sake. Don't trick me into coming out by using a girl. Why is it everywhere I go there's like some weirdo in the place I arrive at? In Manchester, there's like weirdo there. Now there's weirdos here. Now I've got to leave this place as well. People wonder why I don't stream outside. Thank God I don't stream outside. So. This is what I said to her. I can't get the the chat logs back now because I blocked her and deleted the whole thing. I said sorry about last night. I wasn't feeling up for it anymore, and then she was still really insistent to meet up today. She said, "Do you want to meet my dog so we can hang out and go for a walk?" So I just kind of assumed that she would be coming by herself, not bringing this bloody guy with her. Why is the guy still with her? I don't get it. What is the thing with them? Are they seeing each other? Are they friends or what? He's not Scottish, I could tell from the accent, so he's not from around here. I think he came all the way here specifically for this. Show us the cupcake. Okay, I'll put it in the bin.

This—

they gave me this. Not a cupcake, it's a brownie. No way I'm eating that. They probably put something in it, like to drug me, make me fall asleep, and then they're gonna drag my body somewhere. They'll not be standing outside. They're watching right now. Yeah, maybe they are watching. Better explain yourself, because when, when I tried walking away, she tried to stop me, and I said, I thought, I thought you were coming alone. I didn't know you're gonna bring someone. And then she said— but I said Just just us are coming. I thought you meant like you and your dogs. When she kept saying we we we, I thought it's just like oh me and my dogs we us because I said I'm not interested in meeting multiple people. I literally said I'm not interested in meeting multiple people. Multiple people means more than one person. You bring the guy, it's two people. That means it's multiple. What part of that sentence was hard to understand? What's that? Oh, I got a super chat. Oh, thanks, Nissy. Sad thing is, if he is a fan, he should know. Exactly. If he's been watching me, then you'd know. This is like basic knowledge. Since when have I ever Being the kind of person to be like meeting up with all these guys. It's just like another bloody cesium, isn't it? They don't care if I'm uncomfortable or not happy with it. They because they want it. They want to meet me. It's just selfish. Why do you see hanging out with guys as an issue? Because I'm not interested. I'm not interested in guys. I'm not interested in being friends. I'd rather just sit in my hotel room on my own. Then, then waste my time with things that are just going to be friends. And I kind of got like weird vibes from him as well, you know, like, like cesium vibes. Oh God. Should have worn my GoPro. I swear, next time someone tries to meet up with me, I'm wearing my full gear just so that they don't get away with it. Oh no, that might just encourage them because they'll be like, oh, if I trick Daniel into coming out, I'm gonna be in his video, in his stream. I've met Seizym in real life. Really? You serious? Because he was, he was really weird, like really awkward, and you could see he was like shaking because he was really nervous. When he came to my house, I just get—I get like weird, creepy vibes from these people. I just—I can't believe she did that. I made it really clear that I'm only interested in seeing her because I was interested in her from like. You know, like a like from a sexual point of view. I didn't want to have to make it so obvious. I didn't want to have to spell it out. But you know, what other reason would I come all this way to see her for if it wasn't for you know? So why would she think that I want to meet her and a guy? Jesus Christ! You attract weirdos. I know. Why do I keep attracting like these weird people? They tried to take me down like this secluded alleyway as well, down the side of this building. Oh, they were so weird, and they just acted like it was normal and not even a, oh, sorry. But Alan really wanted to come. I, I know you didn't want to meet other people. They just pretended like everything was normal. Oh, this is Alan, nice to meet you. What have you been up to today? Have you been here? Have you been there? Just acting like nothing weird just happened. I felt like they're gonna rob me or something in the alleyway. I think I'm gonna. I feel like I'm gonna delete my Instagram because I just keep getting tricked and my time gets wasted from all these viewers. Even the girls, all the girls just wasting my time saying, "Oh, I'm in Manchester. Let's meet." Oh, I'm in Scotland. Let's meet. Oh, I'm in Timbuktu. Let's meet. Oh, by the way, I'm bringing my friend Roberto. As if I want to meet a guy. I feel so scammed and tricked. Some girls take boys on dates to feel safer. That is the weirdest thing I've ever heard. That's like me going on a date with a girl and then bringing another girl with me. Who does that? Have I left Edinburgh already? No, I just got freaking catfished and trolled By, by 2 viewers. This Scottish girl and then this guy from down south who apparently came all the way here just to see me, which is kind of creepy in, in and of itself. Oh, thanks, Asim. Take care out there, lots of weirdos. I know, I just want to go home now, to be honest. I can't trust anyone. I'm already paranoid as fuck. They took me around the side of the building and they were like, let's go this way. And I thought, uh, let's not. I'm gonna go back. How did you escape? I said, I think actually, I think I'm gonna leave. I'm not really in the mood. They tried to stop me as well. The guy didn't really seem that bothered, but the girl was like following me, trying to get me to come back. And I kept like trying to walk away. She kept trying to talk me into coming back. I knew it was weird because I don't know if I should say this because I knew it ever since I started chatting with her. I knew something was strange because she was telling me the first time she started messaging me, guess what she was telling me? She was telling me about how she was in a hotel with a viewer of mine. I don't know if that's the guy. She sent me like a video clip of her in a hotel and I was like, oh, that's nice. Glad I could have helped you find someone. She said it was like some person who also watches me, and they started chatting, and then she went down to London to see him. So I thought, okay, so you like this guy, but then why are you chatting to me? And then I thought maybe she's interested in me as well and not interested in him anymore. And now I feel like actually she really likes that guy, and then she's trying to do like a nice thing for the guy. Knowing that he really wants to meet me, and then she's like tricking, seducing me into coming out and meeting them. So then she didn't really talk about the guy for a few months, so I thought, oh, maybe things just didn't really work out between them, and now she's interested in me. Oh my God! Did she know about your channel? Yeah, she's been watching since 2019 at least, because that was when the first message I got from her was 2019. And then apparently they went out drinking last night, and that was when I was supposed to go out to see them, but I really didn't want to because I, I already got this weird feeling that it was— it kind of felt like The main objective of hers was to get me to meet this guy. How the fuck did you meet them? Because I've been chatting to her on, on Instagram. She said nothing about some guy showing up as well. Isn't it similar to the German girl story? No, this is way worse because at least the German girl didn't bring her boyfriend with her. If you didn't see the red flags, that's on you. Well, I did see them, it's just I thought maybe I was wrong. Look, I'm very flattered. I'm very flattered if, if someone likes my content, they wanted to meet me, but I'm just not interested in meeting men because I'm not gay. I'm not interested in, in friendships, and I don't do like fan meetups. I should have blocked her straight away. So I felt like it was weird after she, she kept changing Things. Like, she was trying to delay and delay us meeting, and then it was like she wouldn't meet me just on her own unless this guy came as well. She said we would meet on Friday, and I said— and even on Friday, I said, it's going to be just us, right, isn't it? And she said yes, and that Alan was going to come later in the day, and then we could meet up. Oh, this is one thing she said that was really weird. She said on Friday, she said she won't be able to make it on Friday, but Adam's still gonna be there. As if she thinks I'm gonna go, oh, okay, well, I'll just meet up with Adam then and then wait for you on Saturday. What happened? For us new people joining, I just got tricked into coming out to meet a girl, and then she brought a guy with her who's supposedly a fan. It was really weird. I'm just wondering if she's gonna message me again with a different account. You don't know he was her boyfriend? Sounds like that could be possible. But she said she came on a date. She said she came last weekend to Edinburgh, and she sent me a video clip of her in Edinburgh, so I know it was in Edinburgh. And she said she came on a date. That's when I started to first get annoyed because I thought How come you came here to go on a date instead of coming to meet me when I've been sitting around waiting this whole time? How long did you stay with them? I just— not, not even 2 minutes. We started walking and they were like, let's show Daniel this place, that place, and then go for drinks. It was so weird how they just acted as if everything was just normal and not weird after they obviously tricked me into coming out. Because if they explained the circumstances and the situation as it was, they know that I wouldn't have come out. It doesn't sound too strange. I think it's just because I'm not doing a very good job at explaining everything, because I, I made it pretty clear that I'm not interested in meeting if it's gonna be more than just us. She kept saying it would just be us. Surely just us would mean me and her. But then she started saying that just us meant her and him. What should I do? I thought it was weird because she kept saying we are coming. We are just gonna go and get something sweet, something like a cake. I thought she meant like we as in the dogs and me, the dogs and I. Just us means you, her, and Alan. But then what? I said I'm not interested in meeting if there's going to be other people there. I said I'm not interested in meeting multiple people. If I say I'm not interested in meeting multiple people, then doesn't that obviously mean I'm only— I'm not interested if there's other people coming? How else would you interpret— interpret that? She knew he wouldn't be comfortable and tried to force it anyway. Exactly. She knows I, I'm pretty nervous and anxious around people, and then she brings him anyway.

Oh God, I can't believe we came all the way and wasted all this money.

I know.

Was she hot? Uh, she looks okay. I mean, I would have brought her back to my room if she came alone. I wouldn't say no if she was up for it, but not if that bloody guy's gonna be there too. Nearly 300 viewers.

Yeah.

So should I unblock her, guys? Should I unblock her and then ask for an explanation? Press the like button if I should do that. Okay, you want drama? I'll give you bloody drama. Okay, how do you unblock people? Settings, account. If we get 100 likes, then I will Question her. Oh, how do you unblock people in this stupid app? It must be in settings and then security.

No.

Um, follow, invite, notifications, privacy, security. Privacy, blocked accounts. I unblocked her. Okay, she's unblocked now. I don't know if she's watching this, probably not, but if you're watching, then I would like an explanation of what just happened. There's my phone. We're waiting. We the people demand to know why you thought it was okay to bring Alan when I made it pretty clear that I'm not interested in meeting other people. Now, if you brought hot sexy lady friend, then things would be different. I wouldn't be complaining at all. Okay, she's not messaging, so let me see if she's typing. No, she's not typing. She unfollowed me. It said before, it used to say follow back. Wait, is that because I blocked her? If I if I block someone on Instagram, does it make them? I think it automatically makes them unfollow me, doesn't it? Anyone know? Or did she just— did she just unfollow me? Is Streamlabs on? No, I didn't have time to set up Streamlabs, but maybe I can get it going on my computer if you want some text-to-speech. Blocking unfollows. Oh, so because I blocked her, it made her unfollow me automatically. Gotcha. I need to log in. Okay, let's let's message her. Can I get an explanation why you brought Alan? Okay, I just messaged her. Either she's watching this and she decides not to play along, or maybe she isn't watching it and then she explains, or maybe she plays along and doesn't care that I'm streaming all this. Who is Adam? Adam was this guy who just showed up at my hotel at the entrance. I went down to meet her, she was on the footpath by the road, and then this guy comes up, he says, hi, I'm Adam, and then he shook my hand and I was like, what the hell's going on? Who are you? Oh, I got Streamlabs on.

Is Streamlabs on?

Yes, it is. Well, I got Alan. That's not the real Alan.

What would you do if Alan's willy was waving in front of you?

Nothing. Better not be in front of me. Oh, I got a few other ones from Vlogfield.

So you wasted all your money and time on this? You are really dumb.

Hahaha. Yeah, well, I didn't think she was gonna bring some guy with her.

Haha, same old story. So funny that you keep getting trolled and catfished. Er, so dumb. Ha ha ha.

Yeah, I am dumb for believing people. She replied. She's trying to do an audio call. She tries to do an audio call. Should I answer it? But it said missed. Just send the message. Why do we have to do audio calls and voice messages?

Nearly 300 viewers. Nice. Gives me 2019 vibes.

Yeah, 2019 vibes. Tell her to send you a voice message. I don't know what she's doing now. She's not typing or anything. She's making an audio call. Why is she doing an audio call? Now it says call ended. Just do voice message. I'm upset. Hello, Daniel.

That's so cruel making a bloody video. That's really nasty. I thought I was being really nice, and I'm sorry that you've got the wrong impression. I didn't mean to do that. I always thought you knew that he was coming.

No, I said I'm not interested in meeting multiple people.

Yeah, and I didn't think that 2 people was multiple people. I'm sorry.

What else would it mean?

Can you please delete that stream? That's really mean. I honestly thought we were friends, Daniel. Can you not do that?

But you didn't tell me that this Alan guy is coming.

I did tell you. You didn't.

I did. You said he was coming on Saturday.

Yes, and I said that he was staying.

But you didn't say he was coming today.

I'm, I'm sorry that you got— I'm sorry that I wouldn't make that clear, but I don't think that justifies Trying to block me and make a video about me because I feel like you tricked me into coming out. Of course, I didn't mean to do that, and I think that's pretty clear. Please don't make a video about it. That's really mean.

Then why are you calling me when I'm streaming?

Because I'm I guess I'm just hurt, and I'm sorry that I hurt you. I didn't mean to do that. I'm sorry, Daniel.

Then what is— I don't understand what this whole situation is. Why do you want me to meet this Alan guy so badly?

I, I didn't mean that. I didn't want you to meet him badly.

It's just that it's like you really want me to meet this Alan guy.

I, I don't think it's— I, he's— I didn't really want you to meet him. Is that for the car? Sure, thanks, Dad. I'm just with my dad. Alan's the way home.

Well, I don't know, it's just like big misunderstanding.

It is, and I'm really sorry.

You know, I'm like really paranoid and anxious about people because I get trolled and stuff all the time, and I felt like I made it clear that I'm not interested in, in like meeting other people.

I, I, I, I honestly didn't get that, and I'm sorry. I knew that you're anxious, and that's why I was trying to try to see if you wanted to meet before. I'm sorry. Can, can you, can you not make a video? And then that way we can try and save some sort of friendship from this?

Maybe.

Please? Please. I don't think a video is like worth our friendship, you know? Like I thought we were friends.

But I'm not really interested in friendship, to be honest. And I'm or meeting guys. You don't.

It won't. You don't need to meet him.

But then why did she keep like trying to bring him to me?

Sorry, you're kind of cutting up a little bit. Can you hear me?

Yeah, I can hear you.

Yeah, you're cutting out a little bit.

Can you hear me?

Yeah, I can hear you. I can hear you now.

Maybe I need to stand by the window.

Yeah. Are you still streaming? Maybe. Oh, I don't know. Can they hear me?

No. Well, I think we cleared it up then.

I don't want you to make a pariah of this, you know.

Please. Okay, I don't know.

Why'd you say I don't know?

I don't know what else to say.

I think we're both— I'm sorry, and I, I think you're sorry, right? I don't know. I'm still—

I need to calm down because I'm still riled up. I don't want you to be, and I'm sorry. I was just very shocked, and I felt like I was tricked.

But you should have spoke to me. I tried to speak to you and then you— and then you make a stream saying I chased you and I was pulling on your arm. I never did that. I stroked your arm because I didn't want to grab you. I never did anything like that.

Yeah, not pulling. I don't know how to phrase it. It's like gently tugging.

Like some, like, crazy girl. I never tugged at you. I only ever stroked your arm because I didn't— didn't know if you would want me to touch you.

I didn't mind, but I didn't want to do that.

I just don't— don't make me out to be some like crazy girl who's like trying to like get my friend to meet you. Like, it was just that he was in town because I was meeting him, so it just seemed like a nice thing to do. Like, he's— he's— he does watch your videos, you know? That's because he likes you.

But you should have made it clear that he was coming.

I— again, I, I thought I was, and you obviously thought that, that you were being about not, and obviously both of us have got it wrong, and I'm sorry. I didn't mean— I didn't mean to do that. I'm sorry.

Okay then.

Can you delete the stream, please?

Yeah.

I don't want to be some crazy girl in Scotland that you hate. I don't want you to hate me at all. I'm sorry.

Okay, I guess it clears up then. Bye then.

No, no, don't go. Are you gonna block me again?

Uh, I don't know if there's anything else to talk about.

We can try and meet again, just the two of us.

I don't know, I don't feel like I trust you now because I thought we were gonna meet last weekend and then you didn't come, and then you said Thursday, then Friday, And then you kept changing things.

I know, but I live, I live three and a half hours away. It's not easy for me to be here. I'm sorry. And then my mum wasn't well. She went to the hospital yesterday. I wouldn't lie about stuff like that. I wouldn't lie about my family.

Just it just felt really suspicious. And I never.

It wasn't supposed to. I'm sorry.

So who is Alan anyway? Like, are you friends or what?

Um, we're friends. We— I think I told you we met on your stream and we go on dates sometimes.

But you're not like together or what?

No, no. No, because we live really far away from each other. It's just nice to like spend time in each other's city sometimes.

Interesting. Well, I don't know. Like, what did you see in me to watch as friends?

I thought we were. Because you were talking about how you were going on dates with people up here.

Yeah, but that's just because I, um, because I never have good luck with meeting viewers, and then I just always feel like I might as well have secondary plans ready.

But you didn't have secondary plans. You were meeting them all before anyway.

Only because you didn't come on the weekend when I thought we were gonna meet.

You'd already been on a date with someone.

No. Who?

Yeah, I don't—

I went on one date since I got here, and it was on Monday.

Okay.

So what do you want to do?

Well, I want you to delete that stream because I don't think it's very nice and it's not very fair if we both got the wrong— wrong— I don't know, we're both wrong. I don't think it's fair. I don't want you to make me out like that.

Well, that's just what it felt like from my point of view.

Well, it felt awful to me too because I was meant to meet you and then you just flaked on me. And I'm not making a big deal of that, and I'm not— I'm not on your chat being horrible about you, which I could do, and I didn't do that because I thought we were friends.

Well, I didn't do anything.

I'm calling you asking you to forgive me. And you still want to make me feel bad?

No. Yeah, I'm not trying to make you feel bad.

You are doing that. How? Because you're not deleting it. You'd rather just have everyone think that I was some crazy Scottish girl, but they don't even know who you are. And you— and you said he's Name on the stream. That was very mean.

That could have been a fake name if you didn't just give it away.

What do you mean if I didn't just give it away? You just—I wasn't on speaker that they can't hear me.

No, maybe we should continue this privately.

No. What do you mean privately? I'm on the phone. It is private.

But you called me when I'm streaming. So they'll be, they'll be able to hear me.

Oh, so you do have me on speaker?

No, it's just the volume's up loud.

Oh, for goodness sake, Daniel.

So we should phone or talk later because I'm busy.

End the stream.

We can just talk later.

Delete the stream, Daniel.

I will. So what should I do? Should I delete the stream? I don't know what to make of the situation anymore.

What's that?

I live for this, okay?

Oh, thanks.

This is the drama we want to see. K-E-K-L-M-A-O. She's gaslighting and very manipulative. I don't know now. I mean, it sounds like she was sincere, that it was a misunderstanding. Then if she didn't— she must have known I'm streaming. Then why did she phone me when I'm streaming? And everyone's seen it already, so why does it matter if I delete it or not?

She's laughing.

No, I don't think she was laughing. She said she didn't think that multiple people would mean her and Adam, but that's 2 people. Multiple. Singular would be one person. Guys, what do you think I should do? Because now I don't— I feel like it's difficult to trust her now. It's obvious she is manipulative. How can't you see that? I don't know, maybe I've got autism. I can't tell. She just sounds normal to me, like she usually does. So I don't know if I made it obvious that the reason why I wanted to meet her was because I kind of fancied her. But then if she's like seeing this Alan guy, then it just sounds kind of complicated. I don't want to get involved. And then why is she worried about how she comes across to people? It's not like people know who she is. I didn't make her sound like she's that crazy. So I said she was like pulling my arm. I didn't mean like aggressively grabbing me, just like pinching the fabric of my hoodie.

See what she's saying.

She's saying I had her on speakerphone. No, it's just the volume was up very loud and I had it near the microphone. That's why I said just send me a message, not phone me. She preys on you because she knows you're weak. I'm not weak. No, she's watching this stream. But then if she knew I was streaming, then why phone me? And then why complain that people might be able to hear? How does she know about you saying she pulled on your arm? Yeah, exactly. So she's watching. Well, I don't think they're like waiting outside for me because I could, I could hear another guy's voice and it wasn't like the other guy, and I could hear like the inside of a car, so I think she's in a car. She's just a troll. She might be scared to talk to me now because, because I'm very emotional right now and I'm not really thinking logically.

What time is it? 4:40.

How many times did she arrange to meet up before pulling out? Like 3 times. The first 3 times we— I thought we were going to meet just the 2 of us, but it's like she cancelled and delayed every planned meeting up until the day that Adam would be here. Yeah, I spent £3,000 to come here so far, just, just staying here waiting to meet this girl.

£3,000?

So I don't know if Alan is watching, but look, I just want to apologize if I upset you, but I'm just not interested in meeting guys. It's very flattering that you wanted to meet me, but— Then you should have reached out to me directly to, to arrange a meetup, not through her. That's not how to do it.

£3,000?

Yeah, my first apartment cost £1,100, and then this place cost £600, and then my next place cost £400. I'm just bleeding money out here and I'm not getting any— anything out of it. She friend-zoned you. Yeah, that's what I felt like. I was getting major friend-zone warning flags. Because when a girl starts telling you that she's going on dates, then it just makes you feel like— because I would never tell a girl that I'm interested in that I'm going on dates. And then she, she said that I was going on dates as well, just like that Manchester girl started complaining, saying that I started going on dates. That's because she stopped replying to me. Is it wrong of me to go on dates before meeting her? I don't really feel like that's weird. It's only because every time I go and meet a girl, it just seems like most of the time it doesn't work out, and then I don't want to waste my time. So I feel like I might as well get on Tinder and start arranging side things, cuz I want to be efficient with my time. I did that with Tomoko, remember? So I can't, I can't put all my eggs in one basket and then just depend and have all these expectations on her when in most cases, in my experience, things don't work out Or I get ghosted, or I get catfished. Why can't she go on dates? I'm not saying she can't go on dates. I'm just saying she came. She came here to Edinburgh. But went on a date instead of meeting me. Not even to drop by and say hi for like 1 hour, but she messaged me saying she was here on a date. How do you think that makes me feel? Just makes me feel that I'm not like being prioritized.

What happened?

What happened?

I don't know anymore.

It just sounds like she wanted to do a nice thing for this Alan guy. To get me to meet him. Is that Hitler? No, it's Sean Connery. How does that look like Hitler? She's on a date, why take it personally? I'm not taking it personally, I'm just— it rubs me the wrong way. A bit scared now. What if she's waiting outside with her dad to beat me up? Now she's blaming me for not accepting that I also made a mistake. How did I make a mistake? Do you think I made a mistake in assuming that Alan is not going to come? Uh, this is just going round in circles. I said I'm not interested in meeting multiple people. Did she ever mention the dude coming? She said he would be on here on Saturday and that the 3 of us would hang out. That's when I decided I wasn't interested and I decided not to go, but she never said anything about him coming today. Meet one more time without Alan. She says she's with her dad. Oh, this is so confusing. I don't know what to think now. I might go now because, because this is kind of just going around in circles.

What would you do if Alan's willy was waving in front of you?

Oh, why did you keep asking that stupid question? She said she told her dad about what happened. Now she wants me to delete the stream. If she— if we don't know who she is, it doesn't matter. Yeah, that's what I thought. She said, "I didn't talk about you online and make you out to be crazy." Everyone thinks I'm crazy anyway. Guys, do you think I'm crazy? Do you think I made her sound crazy? Yeah, I didn't make her sound crazy. Well, I gotta go now because I have to sort stuff out. Uh, I'll let you know what happens later, I guess. She wants me to delete the stream. Okay, I'm gonna end the stream and then I'll try and sort stuff out and then I'll be back later. Oh my God, what a mess.