I betrayed my wife and failed as a husband [ApV9ZbP6dgM]

She really, she really got rid of my stuff. She said she changed the locks, but they weren't changed. I knew she hadn't changed the locks. She's not here. Everything's gone. My screen, my monitor, my iPad, my iPhone. I still have all this stuff here. My fish. Oh, I can't take my fish. It's too heavy. I spent so much time making this tank nice. I can't believe she got rid of my stuff. Okay, so I've got a few things to explain. I don't even know where to begin. So first of all, I moved back into my wife's place a few days ago, and then yesterday, Tkyo Sam— you know Sam, the American guy who has a YouTube channel— he came to Osaka, so I was out meeting him and we were hanging out. And whilst we were hanging out, my wife somehow managed to unlock my iPad, and she was snooping around on my iPad whilst I was out, and she found some questionable things that I don't really want to tell you. Let's just say it's pretty bad. And she started messaging me when I was with Sam, and she basically said she found the stuff on my iPad and we're finished. And then she started sending me pictures of what she found. And she also said she threw out all of my stuff again. Well, she didn't throw them out, she gave them to her friend to look after. I don't even know what look after means. Why, why, why give it to your friend? Are you going to sell my stuff again? You can't just take my stuff and then sell it. Do you know what she took? She took my iPhone, my iPad Pro, my gaming laptop, my curved monitor, my gaming mouse, my gaming keyboard. Do you know how much all of that costs? It's at least $3,000. I just got back from her place. I spent the night in the Airbnb here last night, and then I went to her place today to try and get my stuff back. She was saying that she changed the locks, but I knew she was bluffing because there's no way she could get the locks changed so quickly. So I went there anyway, and I let myself in because I had a key. She wasn't there. I looked around trying to find my stuff. I couldn't find it. And I was actually thinking of just trashing the whole place as revenge, but I decided not to. And then I ended up waiting in her apartment for about an hour, and then she finally came back. And we had this big argument. She was angry about the thing that she found on my iPad, and I was angry about her stealing my stuff. Because she basically stole my stuff. When you take someone's belongings, And you deny them access to them, it's stealing. So I asked her to give me my stuff back and she refused to. She kept saying her friend has it and she wouldn't let me have it back. So I felt like, oh, this is a waste of time. So I, I took my bag, I threw the apartment key on the floor, and I stormed out. And I kind of lost my temper and I kicked the door that goes into the corridor, and that door is made out of glass and I accidentally smashed it, and now she wants me to pay $400 to repair the smashed door. And I said, fine, I'll pay the $400 if you give me my stuff back. I don't mind paying the money because, yeah, okay, I broke the door. I shouldn't have done that. I lost my temper, and that was— that was bad. But I'm so fed up of her throwing my things away every time we have an argument. She either puts all of my clothing into a bag and chucks it out, Or she sells my electronics. And this time, I'm not standing for it. I don't want to have to buy a 3rd gaming laptop or a 3rd iPad. This is the 2nd time this has happened. The other time was earlier this year. And it's not just about the money, it's the principle. She took my things, my belongings, my property that I paid for, that I worked hard to earn the money and then buy. And she gave them away to her friend to probably sell. I don't even know what they're gonna do with it. There's sentimental things on my iPhone and my iPad. I have videos and photos of my dad that I don't have anywhere else, and I can't just replace sentimental things like that. So I'm trying my best to try and convince her to give me my stuff back. But if she refuses to give my stuff back, I think I'm gonna go to the police, because you can't just do that. You can't just take someone's belongings that's worth thousands of dollars. This isn't just a couple hundred dollars. This is thousands and thousands of dollars. Things that I've bought with my own money, and I have proof that I bought them because I bought them off Amazon, and there's the order history page. Sam said to me that I could go to the police because technically she's stealing at this point. It, it is stealing. You can't really say it's not. And I'm just so fed up with having to spend so much money replacing things that she's sold or thrown away. I know this is all my fault and I was in the wrong for leaving that stuff on my iPad that she found, but this, this doesn't mean it's okay for her to steal my stuff and then just give it away to her friend. And you know what else she did? She took a short video of the thing she found on my iPad and then she sent it to my mum, and now my mum's really angry and disgusted with me. And then my mum sent it to my sister My sister's all freaked out about it as well. It's so childish and petty of her. First she takes away my most valuable items, gives it away to her friend, and then she tells my mum about it. I took a few of her things, but she has nothing of value. She has no electronics. She just has jewelry and these watches. So I took 2 of her watches and her Ray-Ban sunglasses in case she refuses to give my stuff back. Actually, now that I've calmed down a bit, I'm, I'm really glad I didn't trash her place because if I did, she definitely wouldn't give me my stuff back, and I might get in trouble with the police, and I'd have to pay her a lot of money.

Oh my God! Oh my God, guys! It's the man, the myth! Hi, Daniel! Hi.

Oh man, we're at the famous bridge in Osaka with Sam. It's his first time here.

Whoa, can I get a picture? Uh, sure. What's up, dude? Not much. How are you guys doing? I'm doing okay.

Hell yeah. What? I don't know who this guy is.

You think I'm cute or something?

Hell yeah.

Yeah, hell yeah, dude. Hey, what's up?

Sam's talking to his fan. Apple Coca-Cola.

Anyway, I better get off. Have a good one. Yeah, dude, you too, man. Take it easy, man. Hey, don't have too much fun, okay?

Oh, you're famous.

Ah, dude, yes! You have more viewers than me. You have more subscribers than me.

No one recognizes me. Yeah, I don't mind.

Yeah. Oh my God, it's nice.

Coffee with Sam.

Yeah, right. Hello everybody, welcome to Coffee with Daniel. Today's special guest, Tico Sam.

He scared her away.

Nothing reminds me of my first time like a girl trying to get away. That's a quote from a TV show.

He's impressed with the building. Boiled eggs. Would you like a boiled egg?

You know, I'd like to order a poco a poco. I'm fishing! I'm fishing! Very nice. I've got a big rod! I've got a big rod in my hands! Look at his gloves, his pink gloves. You know, it's the way English people do it, with a cup of tea and anchor. Oh, there you go, mate. There you go. I can't fit out. You're right in there. All good, right? Oh, crikey. Oh, that would have went in. Yeah, suck it. Oh my—

oh my—

oh snap. Daniel, you're gonna play the train game after the train ride.

There's a train simulator.

Where should it go?

My new job, I'm a train driver.

Oh, my feet are killing me. Oh, fine. Nice coming okay. Yes, I like it, and I love those piercings too. That's very yay, thank you. Very very Han Koki. I love it. That's great. Yes, I love it.