Recording summary · November 2021
My First Time in Japan
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Overview
Daniel moved to Japan in 2010 prompted by anime and an online relationship with a Japanese woman, staying at a guesthouse with sixty to seventy residents.
The relationship with his Japanese girlfriend deteriorated and ended due to mismatched schedules and personalities.
Daniel integrated into a circle of Korean residents at the guesthouse, began dating a Korean woman, and shifted his interest toward studying Korean language and culture rather than Japanese.
Although Daniel enrolled in Japanese language school in late March and made Taiwanese friends, he was disinterested in the curriculum and struggled to focus.
Following the departure of his foreign friends and the Korean woman when her tourist stay ended, Daniel suffered severe emotional distress, became withdrawn and isolated, and stopped attending classes, before gradually improving as his stay neared its end.
The Korean woman returned to Japan to travel with Daniel during his final weeks prior to his return to England.
The couple sustained a long-distance relationship for roughly six years—including reciprocal visits to Korea and England alongside trips to Paris and Norway—until drifting apart, seeing other people, and parting ways after a final meeting in Japan in 2016.
Themes
Initial travel to Tokyo and residency in a large communal guesthouse.
Dissolution of Daniel's relationship with his Japanese girlfriend.
Involvement with the guesthouse Korean resident community and redirection toward Korean language and culture.
Attendance and curriculum disinterest at Japanese language school.
Emotional decline, isolation, and withdrawal following friends' and partner's departures.
Travel across Japan with the returned Korean partner prior to leaving for England.
Multi-year international long-distance relationship and its eventual dissolution in 2016.
Developments
Daniel arrives at Tokyo airport during the first week of February.
Daniel and his Japanese girlfriend spend Valentine's Day at Disneyland.
Daniel begins attending Japanese language school in late March.
Daniel sees his Korean girlfriend off at the ferry as her three-month tourist stay ends.
The Korean woman returns to Japan to travel with Daniel during his final weeks before his departure to England.
A final meeting occurs in Japan in 2016, concluding the six-year long-distance relationship.